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Buying Your First House

From pre-approval to closing, step by step.

A Soldier and his family sit on the front-porch steps of their new home with moving boxes behind them.

A Soldier and his family settle into their new home during a Permanent Change of Station move. U.S. Army photo by Sharon Carter, Directorate of Prevention, Resilience and Readiness, DVIDS (public domain).

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The short version

Buying can beat renting because every payment builds equity instead of going to a landlord. But that math only works if you stay put. Plan to live in the home for at least two to three years, because the transaction costs of buying and selling can eat any gains on a short stay. Your Basic Allowance for Housing counts as qualifying income, which raises how much home you can afford. Before you commit, think hard about your next set of orders, because a PCS move can force a sale or turn you into a long-distance landlord.

When buying makes sense for you

Renting is not throwing money away when your time at a duty station is short. Selling a home usually costs several percent of the sale price, so if you sell within a year or two, those costs can wipe out the equity you built. As a rule, you want a runway of at least two to three years in one place before buying pencils out.

Your military pay gives you an edge here. Lenders count BAH as qualifying income, so your housing allowance directly increases your buying power. Pair that with a VA loan and the path to ownership is more open to you than to many civilian buyers at the same pay.

Rule of thumb: if you cannot see yourself living there for at least two to three years, rent.

The process, step by step

Buying a home follows a predictable sequence. Knowing the order keeps you in control and stops a lender or seller from rushing you.

  • Get your finances ready. Check your credit and clean up any errors, keep an emergency fund intact, and save for your first home so closing costs do not catch you short.
  • Get your COE and get pre-approved. Request your Certificate of Eligibility, then get pre-approved, not just pre-qualified. Pre-approval means a lender verified your finances and tells sellers your offer is real. Shop several lenders, because rates and fees vary.
  • Work with the right agent. Choose a real estate agent who knows military buyers and VA loans. They will understand your timeline, your allowance, and the loan steps a general agent might fumble.
  • Make an offer. Keep your total housing payment under about 28 percent of your gross monthly pay, and aim lower if you can. That leaves room for the rest of your budget.
  • Get a home inspection. Always inspect before you close. Use the findings to negotiate repairs or a lower price, or to walk away if the problems are serious.
  • Close. Budget about 2 to 5 percent of the price for closing costs. On a VA loan the seller can pay up to 4 percent toward your costs, so ask for it in your offer.

Source: VA.gov

Think about your next orders

You may not control when you PCS, so plan for it before you sign. Ask yourself whether you could sell the home quickly if orders come, or whether it would rent for enough to cover the mortgage if you keep it. A home that is easy to resell or rent protects you when the military moves you on short notice.

Do this now

  1. Pull your COE and your credit. Request your Certificate of Eligibility and review your credit report so you know where you stand before you talk to a lender.
  2. Get pre-approved with two or three lenders. Compare their rates and fees, and get a real pre-approval letter rather than a quick pre-qualification.
  3. Run the 28 percent test. Multiply your gross monthly pay, including BAH, by 0.28 to set your ceiling for a total housing payment, then plan to come in under it.
  4. Stress-test the PCS scenario. Before you make an offer, check whether the home could sell or rent fast enough to cover you if you get orders.

FAQ

Should I buy if I might PCS in a year?

Usually no. Selling costs can erase your equity on a short stay, so renting is often the safer move unless you are confident you can rent the place out for enough to cover the mortgage.

How much do I need for closing costs?

Plan for about 2 to 5 percent of the purchase price. On a VA loan you can ask the seller to pay up to 4 percent of the price toward your closing costs, which can shrink your out-of-pocket cash.

Is pre-qualification good enough to make an offer?

No. Pre-qualification is a rough estimate, while pre-approval means a lender checked your finances. Sellers take pre-approved offers more seriously, so get the stronger letter before you shop.

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